Why does criticism of our style feel so personal?

The intriguing, subjective nature of Fashion is a curious one, particularly when considering the deep personal relationship we share with our appearance. In contrast to discussions about food or music preferences, where we tend to embrace a level of diversity, differing opinions on our fashion sense can sometimes feel like a direct critique on our personal identity and attractivenes. Often meaning disagreements aren’t always met with the same level of open-mindedness.

This heighted sensitivity towards fashion can likely be attributed to the intimate connection it has with our sense of self.Our fashion choices serve as an outward expression of our identity, they're a huge part of language we use to communicate to the world not only who we are, but also who we want to be. You've probably heard of the saying ‘dress for the job you want, not the one you have’. It emphasizes this point that the way others perceive our appearances is connected to our identity.

Therefore, disagreements and critiques on the choices we make regarding our appearance can certainly dig into a more personal space, reaching our deepest insecurities and vulnerabilities.In essence, these critiques carry more weight. They touch not only on matters of taste but also on the personal perception of our own identities.So next time you receive an undesirable critique on your latest styling, understand it’s likely a difference in personal taste and not an attack on your indentity.